Welcome back, VAs! Whether you’re just starting out or have been freelancing for a while, there’s one crucial thing that can completely transform your virtual assistant journey: knowing who your ideal client is.
If you’ve been feeling a bit all over the place trying to find clients or wondering why you’re not getting responses to your pitches, this could be the missing puzzle piece. In today’s post, we’re diving into what an ideal client really is, why it matters, and how you can use this knowledge to grow a successful, fulfilling VA business.
Let’s get into it!
What Is an “Ideal Client,” Anyway?
Let’s clear something up right away: your ideal client isn’t just a single, perfect person you’re waiting to meet. It’s more of a concept — a detailed picture of the type of person or business you want to work with.
They’re your dream client. The kind of person who makes you excited to open your laptop each morning. The one who values what you do, communicates clearly, and operates in a space you’re passionate about.
When you know who your ideal client is, you can stop guessing and start making intentional decisions — from the services you offer to where you market yourself.

Why Knowing Your Ideal Client Is So Important
When I first started out as a virtual assistant, I was sending out messages left, right, and centre to any business I thought might need help. I was working hard… but not smart. Unsurprisingly, I didn’t hear back from anyone. It wasn’t until I sat down and clearly defined who I actually wanted to work with that things began to shift.
Here’s why getting clear on your ideal client matters so much:
1. It Makes Your Outreach More Effective
Instead of trying to appeal to everyone (which usually appeals to no one), you can focus your time and energy on the people who actually need your services. You’ll waste less time chasing the wrong leads and spend more time nurturing the right ones.
2. You Can Tailor Your Services
Once you know your ideal client’s needs and challenges, you can shape your offerings to be the perfect solution. Whether it’s inbox management, social media support, or tech troubleshooting, you can package your services in a way that feels like they were made for that client.
3. You Understand Their Pain Points
Knowing what your client is struggling with — whether it’s keeping up with customer service or managing their Pinterest strategy — allows you to speak directly to their pain. When you understand their world, you’re better equipped to offer real value.
4. You Can Speak Their Language
With a clear ideal client in mind, your marketing (emails, posts, portfolio copy) will sound like it was written just for them. This helps build trust and connection — before you’ve even had a conversation.

How to Define Your Ideal Client (Step-by-Step)
Ready to get clear on who your ideal client is? Here are a few important things to consider:
1. What Industry Do They Work In?
Are they educators? E-commerce shop owners? Life coaches? Get specific here. The industry someone operates in will determine what kind of support they need and how you can help.
Example: My ideal client works in the education sector. Because of my background in this field, I know how to speak their language and understand their unique challenges.
2. What Services Do They Need?
Do they need a generalist who can juggle lots of small tasks, or are they looking for a specialist in things like email marketing, social media management, or tech platforms like Kartra or Kajabi? Tailoring your services to their needs makes you a much more appealing option.
3. What Are Their Pain Points?
Think about what’s overwhelming them. Maybe they’re drowning in DMs, or maybe customer emails are falling through the cracks. When you understand their day-to-day struggles, you can position yourself as the person who makes life easier.
4. What’s the Size of Their Business?
Would you prefer working with solo business owners who wear all the hats, or bigger teams with more established systems? The size of their operation can really change the kind of support they need.
Where to Find Your Ideal Client
Once you’ve mapped out who your ideal client is, it’s time to find them. And no — it doesn’t involve endlessly scrolling on Instagram hoping for a lead.
Here are some smarter ways to connect:
Join niche Facebook groups that align with your ideal client’s field. If they’re educators, look for teacherpreneur groups or platforms like Teachers Pay Teachers.
Hang out where they hang out. Are they active on LinkedIn? In Slack groups? Do they attend webinars or online summits? Be present in those spaces.
Add value before pitching. Build authentic relationships by engaging with their content, answering questions, or sharing helpful advice. When they do need help, they’ll think of you first.

The Power of Knowing Your Ideal Client: More Benefits to Consider
Let’s go even deeper. Here are a few more ways that knowing your ideal client can transform your VA business:
Service Personalisation
If you know your ideal client runs a tech startup, you can offer services like app testing, CRM integration, or customer ticket management. Your offers become irresistible when they’re this tailored.
Effective Marketing
You’ll know which platforms to use, what content to post, and what kind of language to use. Everything becomes clearer — and easier.
Higher Success Rate
You’ll land more clients because you’re exactly what they’re looking for. It’s like a perfect match!
Better Use of Your Time
Instead of pitching to 50 people and getting crickets, you can pitch to 5 dream clients and land 2 of them. Less hustle, more results.
Stronger Client Relationships
When you know your client and their business inside-out, you become more than just a task-doer. You become a trusted partner.
Confident Pricing
You’ll know the value you bring, and you can charge accordingly — without second-guessing yourself.
Getting clear on who your ideal client is can make all the difference between spinning your wheels and building a thriving, aligned virtual assistant business. It allows you to confidently market your services, show up in the right places, and connect with people who genuinely need what you offer.
So take the time to figure it out. Use the worksheet, get specific, and don’t be afraid to tweak things as you go.
👉 Need help or want to connect? Come hang out in our Facebook group, “The Basics for Virtual Assistants,” where we’re building a supportive community of VAs learning and growing together.
Thanks for reading, and don’t forget to catch the next episode — we’ll be chatting all about what you need to have in place before reaching out to clients. See you there!